How do I Determine How Much Weight to Lift?
When choosing the amount of weight to use, the main goal is to
lift a weight that is heavy enough so that you reach "failure" (or very close to it) at the end of each set. Failure
simply means that you should be struggling by the last one or two repetitions, and should not be able to perform more than the alloted number of repetitions for that set
Example: If you
are aiming for 8-10 repetitions, the weight
should become very difficult to lift once you reach between 8 and 10. Sounds simple enough right?
Typically, most muscle building training programs incorporate a
weight that is between 70-85% of your 1RM (1 repetition maximum weight). By
using this calculation you should get a weight that can only be lifted between 8-10 repetitions, which is considered the ideal range for building muscle.
Here a step by step example of how you can estimate how much
weight should be lifted for each weight training exercise:
Step 1:
Determine your 1RM for each
exercises. This is the maximal amount of weight you can lift, using correct exercise technique.
Step 2: 
Use your 1RM to plug in to the formula below. Do this for each exercise. this number will be the actual estimated weight that
you should use for that specific exercise.
(1RM) X (.70 - .85) = Estimated
weight
So let's say your maximum bench press is 185 lbs. You would plug that
number in to the formula, and it would look like this:
185 X .70 = 129.5 lbs.
185 X .85 = 157 lbs.
Therefore, the estimated amount of weight that you should lift for
this example would be between about 130 and 157 pounds. Now since that is a pretty wide range, proceed to step 3 to get a more accurate weight.
Step
3
Using the estimated weights you calculated using the formula above, perform one set to failure, for each exercise. Keep track of the number
of repetitions you were able to complete then add or decrease weight until you
are able to perform the number of repetitions that your program
specifies.
For example, if you calculated that 70% of your 1RM for the bench press was 130 pounds, perform one set of this weight to failure. If you were able to perform 20 repetitions, then the weight is obviously too light and needs to bee increased. If you were only able to perform 5 repetitions on the other hand, the weight is too heavy and needs to be decreased.
*Remember, using weight that is too light will primarily
increase your muscular endurance, but won't stress the muscle fibers enough to
stimulate significant growth. Using weight that is too heavy on the
other hand will stimulate your nervous system and in turn increase your
strength, but won't incorporate the optimal number of repetitions required to
build muscle.
To build significant amounts of muscle, you have to train with a weight that is 70 - 85% of your 1RM. Aim for a time under tension (TUT) of approximately 30-70 seconds, or a repetitions range of about 8 - 10.
Remember to leave your ego at the door when you enter the gym, and train to build muscle, not to impress others. Lifting a weight that is too heavy can sacrifice exercise technique, and will increase your strength instead of building muscle. Using weight that is too light will not place enough load on the muscles, and ultimately won't force them to grow.
Finally, once you have determined how much weight to lift for each exercises, make sure that you are using the correct number of repetitions, and tempo.